Elopement Photography

Traditionally, the term elopement referred to a couple "running away" to get married in secrecy without telling any family or friends, but today eloping has a new meaning! Elopement Photography doesn't have to come with any shame or embarrassment and should be just as much of a celebration as any other wedding!

So what exactly is an Elopement/Elopement Photography?

There are a lot of different definitions out there, but here's our version: An elopement is an intimate wedding day experience that is focused entirely on you and your partner. A day that is intentionally planned to reflect your relationship and what truly matters. Eloping doesn't mean you're running away in secret or that you can't afford a big wedding, or that you have to have a day that's any less special than a traditional wedding. Eloping is about taking the most important part of a wedding — the GETTING MARRIED part — and building an experience around it that feels authentic to YOU. This can still include elements of a traditional wedding if you want, or you can completely toss those out the window. An elopement can be adventurous, or it can be luxurious, it can be fun and exciting, it can be super low-key, it can be literally whatever you want it to be. It's about making the day you commit yourselves to each other truly the best day ever. Of course, that will look different for every couple, but that's one of the best parts of elopements — there are no rules!

Elopements vs. Intimate Weddings: What's the Difference?

Elopements technically ARE (very) intimate weddings, but a few things set them apart, including the number of guests present and the overall flow of the day.

Elopements often only include the couple and officiant (and photographer too, of course), but it's generally less than 10 people when there are guests. Intimate weddings have a larger guest list than elopements but a smaller one than traditional weddings. Typically, this means 50 people or less.

Elopements are all about the couple and allowing them to be the sole focus of the day! However, as much as traditional weddings are also about the couple, there is an inevitable emphasis on guest experience that comes along with having more people present (even if it's a "small" wedding). It's not a bad thing to want to spend time with your friends and family, make sure that they are entertained and enjoying the food, music, atmosphere, but that usually puts limits on other elements of the day and means less alone time for you and your partner.

Elopements can take place pretty much anywhere! They aren't confined to a venue, so many couples can elope in epic destinations or somewhere more adventurous. For example, you can elope to the top of a mountain, but it would be challenging to have more than a few guests at this type of location. For this reason, you are more likely to need a venue to host your guests if you have an intimate wedding. A lot of destination weddings are intimate weddings!

There's usually no formal reception or huge party after an elopement ceremony, and instead, there is a larger focus on couples portrait and spending intentional time together - whether that's hiking and exploring your chosen destination, doing a fun excursion (like a boat cruise or helicopter tour), or including a favorite activity/hobby of yours (like swimming, bike riding, skateboarding, cooking, etc.). Even if a few guests are present for an elopement, the couple will plan extra time away for just the two of them. Intimate weddings generally still have a reception, but it's usually more casual and relaxed than at a traditional wedding.

Common Misconceptions about Elopements

Elopements are shameful or unapproved marriages. Not anymore! While this may have been commonly true in the past, elopements now have a different meaning. Elopements are about choosing to get married in a more intimate way meaningful to your relationship. It's about what YOU want, not what other people think about your relationship. Many couples who elope still have support from their family and friends; they're just celebrating differently!

You have to keep your elopement a secret. This is a personal choice but not a requirement! Many couples share their elopements with their family and friends beforehand or even include them in the day. If keeping it private is what feels right to you, then that's okay too!

You can't include your family or friends in your elopement day. While many couples do elope just the two of them, you can invite your loved ones to your day if it's important to you to have them there! If you want to keep your ceremony private but want to include your family in other ways, consider asking them to help with different things throughout the planning process or schedule a bigger celebration at a later date.

Elopements are always last minute and don't need planning. This can be true, but it's not always the case anymore! Many couples spend just as much time planning their elopements as they would a traditional wedding day. Eloping means being intentional about the choices you make for your wedding day, and you can take as much time as you need to make these decisions.

People only elope to save money. The fact that elopements are generally less expensive than traditional weddings is a nice perk, but it isn't usually the sole reason behind the decision to elope. Many couples choose to invest more into their elopement day because they value the experience and genuinely want the day to be exactly what THEY want.

Elopements are selfish. This idea always baffles me. When it comes down to it, your marriage is about YOU. However, you spend your wedding day should also be about you. If a larger wedding with all of your friends and family is what YOU want, that's awesome! But if you want a more intimate wedding experience, those who love you will support you, and you shouldn't feel bad about doing what feels authentic to you as a couple.

Elopements are quick and rushed. However, a lot of times, people think that because elopements are smaller than bigger weddings, that means the day also has to be shorter or that it will be less memorable. We strongly disagree! No matter how you're getting married, we genuinely believe that you should be able to take in and enjoy every single moment of your day and that it deserves to be fully documented. There's so much more to getting married than having a quick ceremony and a few couple's portraits! Your entire day can be an intentional and meaningful experience.

What Does an Elopement Day Look Like?

Your elopement day can look like whatever you want it to.

We like to tell couples to imagine the best possible day they can think of spending with their partner and turn that into their elopement day! This could look like waking up at sunrise, hiking up to an epic viewpoint, or having a slow morning together over your favorite breakfast. It could mean getting ready with your partner or inviting your siblings, parents, or closest friends to help you. You can get married at a destination you've always wanted to travel to (helloooo, Italy or Iceland??) or get married in the backyard of your childhood home. As long as your day reflects your relationship and is meaningful to YOU, that's all that matters!

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